THE GAME OF COURTSHIP Series- 2 {Courtship: PHRENOLOGY TIPS AND OH BOY!}

                                             THE GAME OF COURTSHIP

                                                                 Series- 2

     Courtship: PHRENOLOGY TIPS AND OH BOY!

FIND THE MOON.....

Phrenology is the science of face reading. According to it, face is like a coded message of what is going inside the occults of brain. If we decode this matrix, accurately we can hit a gold mine in a relationship. Hear are the things that you need to check out before falling for a pretty and handsome face.

1.       Inverted pyramidical face is a strict No- No. Inverted pyramid are faces where the head in broad and tapers down to thin and pointed chin. These are very shrewd people who are genetically hard wired to save their skin in any damn situation even at expense of anyone.

2.     Broad forehead and prominent architect temporal eminence are the people of “Einstein Species”, they are very intelligent in academic fields and sometimes blessed with worldly wisdom (for which see another demarkers on the face also).

3.     Eyebrows: Good bushy eyebrows indicate youth, very high raised eyebrows which seem like dividing the forehead equally in two halves shows a very indescesive personality, immature people.

4.     EYES : Small eyes, which seem still shut, when they are broadly open are licentious eyes [or in the delhi lingo “tharkey eyes”] – They won’t ever-ever be loyal. Any chance to escape into another relationship, they are first to go.

Big and bright eyes are immediate “Yes-Yes”. Laughter Lines at the outer corner of eyes indicate the humour side of the person.

5.     Nose should be of good length along with properly formed alae nasi [nostrils].

-         Excessive long and thin nose- cleanliness freak along with fear of disease.

-         Small and little upturned nose- egoistic, bluntly uptight, opinionated prejudice people.

-         A dent in the septum of nose [the bridge that joint tip of nose to the upper lip] shows melancholic & depressive people. {they are also the people with weak liver and suffer from its problems in future}

-         Convex shape of the nose [as appreciated from the lateral view] executive people nose who are born leader

-         And parrot Beak nose [again appreciated from lateral view]-are good thespian and great entertainer.

6.     Full moist lips, apart from indicating good digestive along with reproductive systems also indicate loving, caring and benevolent trails, whereas pinched and small lips would broadly show the selfish and self centred qualities.

7.       Smile: A tight lipped smile is the secretive smile, as if the information is being with healed from you. Smile should always show the pearly teethes as it generates trust in the brain of onlooker.

8.     Cheeks: Gullotonouse cheeks or the hefty cheeks just dropping like a meat loaf on the face are definitely a No, apart from feeding their belly, they have ulterior purpose in life is to by hook or crook get on top, get the wealth and for that they sink their morals in deep blue sea.

Witch Cheeks: High placed, bulgy upper cheeks, vicinity of eyes-their world starts with friendship and peer group and ends there. They can be your best friend but in relationship it is a 50-50  game.  

9.     Dimples: Dimples do cause leathel attraction but here is the actual truth about them. Dimples on cheeks indicate want of appreciation and praise. They are little self obsessed people who always crave lime light. Dimple on the chin indicates aristocratic taste, they are people with brands and beauty around them they are very specific about their choices.

10.  Chin: Small chin tapering chin: Indicates poor filtering systems of body that is kidneys [not good functioning kidneys] hence impure blood cause low moralistic people.

Excessive protruding chin- Obstinate, Orthodox people

Receding Chin- Indescesive people

A GOOD CHIN should be broad with slight protrudences.

11.   Double Chin: A Small dewlap (skin hanging) everyone have under their chin indicating the trait of “savings for future” but if this dewlaps hangs down [like the cow’s dewlaps] or in other words heavy double chin, you have come across a very miser and niggerlined person.

12.  Ears: Ears should be round and well placed.

-         Protruding ears are of superstitious and indescesive people.

-         Long ears are scientific and brainy people.

Like twelve Zodiac signs, I have broadly demarked twelve zodiac of facial anatomy and you got to make your pick. And very confidently, I can say, maximum numbers of girls are going to listen to me and in rarest phenomenon the boys. And if I find the reason for it, it all cut short to one hormone, Testosterone. Oh Boy!

OH BOY!

Before I decipher the boy’s neurochemistry let me start with two real life stories and everything I want to say would be well evident.

STORY 1 -This boy as soon as he reached the senior classes in school suddenly felt a dire need to make a girlfriend. For that he worked really very diligently in gyms and after 6 months of pumps up and push ups, he finally got his macho entry in date market.

The only credential he was looking forward was the beauty and attraction quotient after all he was looking just for a fling, not to settle down with her. And finally he was able to woo the girl with such a resume.

He was the happiest guy on the face of earth as his peer got jealous of him because he had such a hot girl friend.

Three months later he was running away from his beautiful girlfriend. The girl made his made his life a living hell. Under that beautiful skin there was an emotionally needy girl, who wanted presence of her boyfriend all the time. She was so insecure. When boy came to know about her real colours, he tried to break off every tie with her, but it was not easy.

She invaded his home, created a big scene in his neighbourhood. Boy suffered the greatest misery of his life [details of which have been, already told in my blog Rancore] he was so petrified that only way out was to run away and he executed his only option. He studied so hard and finally clicked an entrance exam of engineering, though he was getting an admission in good collage in his hometown but he opted for another for away collage. Look the hostel facility and in four years of his engineering course rarely returned to his home town. Once so macho guy now harboured such a fear from that beautiful girl.

Here is story Number Two....

Running parallel to its line, this boy completed his civil engineering with good grades and subsequently established business as a builder. Beginner’s luck shined over him and in a year was able to make lot of money. This family started a bride hunt for him. Girls after girls he rejected on the basis of beauty. It was almost 2 years his family brought him a suitable watch and he kept on rejecting, until one day he came across one very beautiful tall girl. He finally agreed to meet her. This family was happy.

He met her, talked to her and then like it was expected said, “Yes”. The family met the girl, talked to her but this time on contrary, family wanted to reject her but since it was first time the boy have said, the family sealed their lips.

They had six months of courtship before the marriage date. In those six months they met six times and each time they end up fighting. Boy ignored it when she talked about her opinion about nuclear family, boy ignored it when she talked about how she do not like kids and he ignored lots of thing in that courtship which he realizes now after getting married to her. As it was foreseen by the family, the boy’s life was made living hell. All that girl did was to take care of herself, spending time in beauty parlours, kitty parties and hanging out with friends.

He still wanted that maybe when they have a baby the things would change. But she aborted her first baby as she did not want the kid. Next time when she conceived, she came to know late and there was risk to her health, she decided to continue the pregnancy. Now they have a baby boy and things are none better, they are getting worse day by day.

Only “Beauty ” not always work for guys but still they always fall for beautiful faces. Oh Boy!

“THARKEY BOYS”

FLIRTING IS GUYS BASIC NATURE

Do you know that whenever a child is conceived, the brain starts it’s development as female brain. It’s only in eighth week, in boys there is sudden increase in testosterone level which fades away other emotional and visual and verbal centres [that are prominent female brain] hence leaving them with two emotions fight and flight.

 With this aggression, there comes one more thing attached to this testosterone is FLIRTING, which makes them eligible road side Romeos. Who find their Juliet in every other girl?

This is not common only with young teenager’s boys but also seen in elderly men also married men. Guys brain is hardwired to think about sexual intercourse, at least couple of times in an hour because of this influence of testosterone where as the girl’s brain think about sex, one or two times in a day.

The “flirting gene” in boys makes them a best thespian as they pretend a good and decent guy image to get the girl. Even knowing their reputation, still girls fall for them on their acts. [Check out in series 1, why girls fall for wrong guys?]

All handsome boys know this trick.

WHEN DO GUYS KNOW THAT THEY HAVE THEIR GIRL?

Answer is known to all guys, when the girl starts laughing at his jokes. But there is a trick here which distinguishes a smart guy from the foolish guy both of them trying to “woo” their respective girls. Before coming to that let me first come to why sincerely laughing at guys jokes make them weak at their knees? Why girls like their guys to be funny and have good sense of humour [well, these are two characteristic in the list of every girl for their dream boy]

The basic manevaur of genuine laughing or smiling is controlled by 2 muscles zygomatic major which run down the side of face and connect corner of month which can also be controlled consciously [hence can produce a fake smile] the other is orbicularic which pulls eye back and it works independently of any person’s control, hence reveal the true feeling of genuine laughter. Hence in genuine laughter, there are prominent laughter lines around eyes, eyes cover fold moves downward and the end of eyebrows dip downwards which lead to in papillary dilatation. Which is a key signal for courtship? To bring about the same effect, guys take their girls for candle light dinner in dim light to bring same effect so laughing which under covers ulterior sign of pupil dilatation is an important green light signal in courtship.

The trick here is, the guys should have genuine jokes where female can laugh over. All the double meaning, loose talks are strict No-No, instead of attracting opposite sex, they repulse is a fine it away. There is a fine line of demarcation between “Mr. Perfect” and a comedian in the movie or joker in the circus, which former they would like to be and which latter, they are better off where they are, not at all preferred in real life.

MAGIC TRICK FOR GIRLS-ALWAYS, ALWAYS WORK

When it is said, that guys like beautiful girls, it does not mean fair skin, sharp features, tall, slim girls. It means healthy attractive female. The key factor here is attraction guys like girls with baby face as it stimulate the paternal care centres in their brain and they want to protect and take care of their girl. If a girl, on regular basis would be able to stimulate those centres her guy would stick to her for, let say, “forever”. And this can be done by sideways looking smile”.  

Manevaur of sideways looking smile- with head turned down and away, subtly looking up. This is the most innocent and youthful smile, moreover it is men’s favourite smile all over the world. This increases male’s parental feeling, making him protective and caring about his girl.

TIP FOR GIRLS: make it regular features in your courtship repertoire for the man you like.

HERIARCHY PATTREN OF WHAT GUYS CHECK UP IN THE FEMALE THEY ARE ATTRACTIVE TO

Well, it is a biggest myth that guys first check out the female cleavage. The hierarchy of  attraction quotient is first guys check-up their girls eyes, then the step two is her smile and when girl have scored well in both above factors then come her bust and bums.

It the man is really, really interested girls hairstyle, her hair pins and her dressing sense and colour of her dress will draw guy’s undivided attention. No, doubt cosmetics and anatomy correction surgeries are million doller industries.

PHEROMONES-THE LETHAL SCENT

In every species there is a secret sent of the females that attracts the male of the species. In humans also the procedures remain the same. When the female start peering and decorating herself {in front of target men}, she purposely exposes her armpit {Green signal sign for men to make approach} and hence releasing that lethal attraction scent in air towards the target men. Subtlety the male brain picks up this scent and he gets attracted to female counter part.

 

 To be continued.......

To know more of these tricks by both players of the game-both male and females, check out my next blog dealing with modus-oprendi of the game of courtship. How it is actually played, who makes the first move, who gets the upper hand, and how these moves are decoded.

How to read it and how to counter play; check out next week in the SERIES-3 of the game of courtship 

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THE GAME OF COURTSHIP Series-1 Courtship: Potential mates and high alert for girls

                                             THE GAME OF COURTSHIP

                                                               Series-1

       Courtship: Potential mates and high alert for girls

I am giving a temporary break to the story telling series of mine and in few subsequent blogs elicit the whole and through assessment of the “Game of Courtship”.

And why do I so abruptly thought to write about it is because suddenly like there is increase in the cases of viral fevers, dengue fevers or any other kind of fever, there is dramatically increase in ditching, break up games of courtship, more for girls less for guys, but they are turning to me for a remedy or a solution.

“Break –up not an end of the road”, Is the tag line for looser.

Why?

 Because it is not any solution.

Whenever a person, irrespective of guy or girl experiences the red blushes of intimate feelings of passionate love it generates feel good chemicals like dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, acetylcholine & oxytocine which shut down the stress and critical thinking centres of brain and generate the feeling of ECSTASY, similar to the effects produce by drugs like cocaine, opiates like heroin, morphine. And when suddenly “Break-up” cut the supply of these neuro chemicals of brain, the body starts to suffer from the weaning effect of these, leading to withdrawal symptoms. And their miseries are more increased when there is sudden increase in stress hormones cortisol in body. Apparently, according to research, it hurts equivalent to physical pain because it triggers the same pain circuits. Therefore any broad blunt statement rather than being a band-aid to their wounds aggravate their pain many folds and throw them in abyss of depression.

The solution, I offer is to make them more smarter by making them understand this game thoroughly, giving them positivity to play it again and next time when they enter this ring of fire, they are thoroughly prepared not repeating their earlier mistakes and controlling the whole set of affair. After all the BEST REVENGE IS TO LIVE YOUR LIFE AS PERFECTY AS YOU CAN AND GIVING NO SHIT ABOUT THE ONE WHO DARE TO BREAK YOUR HEART.

I show them a mirror with a bright future and the flow chart steps to make a kill. I revive their dream and ambition. There is motivation which according to the rules of universe is inversely proportionate to Depression.

So, Let the GAME BEGINS.......

Courtship is not the recent event or few centuries old but it dates back to primitive man in early Stone Age. The main problem of early man was to produce healthy and long living progenies so that their genes could be conserved. Even Darwin elicit it in it’s theory that mating game is part and parcel of  every species growth and perseverance, where females choose among the best of the males as their suitors, therefore it is said,

LET THE BEST MAN WIN.

And the architecture of selection is not the recent one, neither it gets modified by the modern centuries; it remains the same, as it was hardwired in the brains of primitive men, millennia ago. And this whole courtship circuits, now-a-days, we call, falling truly, madly, deeply, heads over heels in love.

POTENTIAL MATES for Women

According to the study, females are more interested in credentials of a man rather than his handsome looks. They will fall for a man with a social status along with secured job and salary. They always think of long term relationship.

Another research found that their male preference is the one who is at least four inches taller or three and a half year older. This female mate preference in universal, irrespective of any culture.

For Men  POTENTIAL MATES

 Men on another hand are attracted to women who shows most healthy reproductive ability and with attractive features, which are at average two and half years younger than they are. They should be attractive and presentable [as there is unsaid competition among the peers, that who get the most attractive damsel off them all] with clear skin, bright eye, full lips, shiny hairs & curvy syminetrical hour glass figure. After all these are the observable sign of fertility and health.

WHY DO GIRLS ALWAYS FALL FOR WRONG GUY?

This is a common story and mostly one of our friend’s cousins has this fate. It is like girls grow up seeing fairy tales and believe that there is definitely a knight with shining armor trooping on his white steed, to enter into her life and rescue her from her daily difficulties. All she asks is protection. Therefore she really get influenced by the brave stories of struggle that guy suffered during growing up years for his family and dreams that one day he will take stand for her, in the time of need. They even get charmed by the scars or scalds of fight on their guy face, after all they are the “MACHO-MAN”.

But it turns out, that these guys have suffered the perils of stress and the only way to vent it out is to find a woman who appreciate them and to whom they could tell the anecdotes of his bravery. This satisfied their “Ego” and when the stress condition is over and life smiles brighter, they try to leave the past including that girl behind and venture out for a new bright sunny beginning. Therefore, it is advised for girls to abstain from self obsessed Rambos.

A patient of mine was very much impressed by a guy, who after the death of his father at very young age, struggled hard, taking full responsibility of his mother and his studies and with lot of difficulties was able to complete his studies and land up in a modest paying job. He always has the incidents of childhood, that once they never have anything to eat and how in just 2 pairs of jeans, he passed the whole collage life, to tell to her. Their relationship went on for quite a long period of time, ultimately ending abruptly, as the boy, of sudden cut off all the contacts with her. She was baffled and anxiously left him so many messages, tried to call him. She did it for weeks but there was no response, she sulked in depression. It was only after couple of months she came to know that the guy got promotion in the job, got a salary hike and out of blue got hold of some ancestral property. And since he was filling every credential for an eligible groom, his mother found him a bride to get married this December.

So therefore, the lesson to learn here is that not every scar on the guys face or every word coming out of his mouth is to be believed on the face value. It may not be a token of his mojo but could be a painful reminder of careless fall after getting drunked in middle of the road, which he could be cashing on you.

WHY THEY SAY “LOVE IS BLIND”?

Well, “Love is blind” because we shut our eyes over our lover mistakes even though how erroneous they are. There is a scientific reason behind it. When the person drawn himself in the infatuation passionate love kind of thing, the brains fear alert systems amygdale and anterior cingulated cortex the critical thinking centre and worrying centre are shut down, [which are on high alert in females when they meet strangers] and the brain is flooded with feel good hormones and neurochemicals which give the feeling of high.     

To make the situation more badly, there comes “the hug”. Twenty seconds, just twenty seconds of hug, triggers the production of oxytocine to many folds that click the on button of romantic love centres of brain and creates more and more new trust circuits in the brain for lover, hence making them completely blind to the mistakes of their beloved and this tendency, again according to the research by Helen Fisher, anthropologist at Rutgers university, is shown more in women than men.   

A friend of mine from college, who knew one of our senior from school days, ends up falling for him even though knowing he was not a right guy for her. That guy, who had a reputation of hitting on every other girl in the college, finding no response from any other girl, ultimately settles for her, after all guys believe that “bird in a bush is better than none.”

Moreover the girl was the only child of a rich that too well settled homoeopathic doctors family, was none other than a prize catch for that guy who was from middle class family and with no good grades in studies.

Although the girl being aware of guy old ways mistakenly thought that he must have changed and she ignored minor incidences happening in front of her as part and parcel of every guy’s decor. But she realized her blunder when she caught the guy full fledge cheating on her just couple of months back before they were to conjoined in holy connubial.

This came as a shock to whole family and when her eyes were open, it was too late. But still, as it is said, “Better be late than never”.

So girls, do not hug or do not let the guy hug you until you are gold slandered sure about the loyalty of the guy. It only takes twenty seconds to sweep you off the floor.

To be continued.......

Catch out in next series about the phrenology tips that you look in your beloved along with blunders committed by guys that reuine whole courtship game and tips for girls how to smile the way in guy’s heart. 

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