BREAK BONE STRATEGY series 1

   BREAK BONE STRATEGY

Human skeletal system have two hundred and six bones and there are various ways to break them, easy ones are physical injury, accidental fall or deprived bone minerals like calcium, phosphorus etc… etc…

There are plenty touchy and non-touchy, non-violent ways to break them too and in this series of “break bone strategy series” we will illicit these clichés.

PROMISES ARE MEANT TO BE BROKEN

Long gone was the era when the words of tongue were worth living and dying for, but today they are forgotten and buried deep into the earth.

Well, this is a story of one such forgotten promise that created a bedlam in the life of a man and broke his heart and neck. [Reminding you again: there is no violence in the story]

The story dates back to the era when the refrigerator, coolers and telephone were the luxury afforded by the rare in the society and those who were the proud of owner of such antiques were runner-ups in league of Tata, Birla and Ambani’s.

It was a village set up. An innocent seventeen year old boy lost his heart to sixteen year old “gaon ki chori”. His advances were equivalently reciprocated and in single year, they became Krishna-Radha couple of the Suburb. The boy was studious, ambitious and courageous. He was pursuing the course of astrology along with his regular studies and enrolled himself in the college for Bachelor’s course in Hindi language.

Girl on the other hand was struggling with her frequent attempt of metric exams. But still she was a hell of day-dreamer and wished for a life of queen. Therefore her beauty responded the Romeo tactics of the scholar of the village. She was taught that education bring brand luxury to life.

It was still a long road for the guy to achieve the flying colors but the thing that was taking the toll of her life was the strife with the girl.

Frequent failures in studies and touching eighteen age was making her parents anxious for her marriage. Since the boy child didn’t qualify as perfect groom, her parents were exploring other options.

The boy went pleading to her parents for a consideration but was treated with a deaf ear response. He met the girl with his anxieties and she assured him, her loyalty.

Six more months passed in the tug of war that finally the news of the girl’s espousal.

          NEVER ENDING WAIT

He waited for hours and hours and hours for his lady love at the railway station but she didn’t appeared. From dawn to dusk he stood on one leg, palpating heart and fearful brain but love of his life was not visible. Fearfully he rushed to her house but to his utter surprise the girl was married to the groom her parents choose for her.

He felt on the ground with tears gushing out of his eyes. His emotions wrenching his heart and in complete despair he cursed his destiny.

May be there was the perfect logical reason for his girl’s act, how in any possibility came as a thunderstorm in the life of the boy.

At midnight, he again met the girl at the secret spot and she still voiced for her altruistic love for him. She told him that this matrimony was an eye wash and in reality she was ready to run away with the boy.

The boy who was mad in love was even ready for such adjustment too. Finally it was decided that on the day for her marriage she would run away with her lover and they will marry in the temple and have their adventurous happily ever after. Boy made all arrangements by lavishly spending all his meager savings. He even booked tickets to Kashmir for the honeymoon.

Of the world, would she ditch him? She must have been forced for it. But his entire trance was broken when after one month he got the girl’s letter, she wrote it clearly that she married the guy out of her pure wish and the runaway plan was to keep him at bay, so that the wedding affairs could go velvety smooth. She loved him but she loved herself more, and since it would take years before the boy to establish his footings, she can’t accept more struggle in life, she took the decision. Her groom was well off rich of the town, who could buy her all stars in the sky. She chose worldly happiness over love. She requested him not to follow her and have life of his own.

The last straw of his hope swam away in the flooding water. Everything he ever lived for was taken away. His life, his ambition and his happiness.

FORTY YEARS LATER…

He is a local astrologer in a town’s local temple. He was a bright student with a shiny future but after that incident lost interest in studies and could, only manage a meager degrees which kept him off shore prohibiting him to swim in deep seas.

Though he is married and now has sons and daughter-in-laws and grand kids but its all part of superficial happiness not his inner peace. Not even a single day passes he doesn’t remember her lady love and the black day of her marriage that changed his destiny. The reason why he is not able to forget it because since that day he suffered from broken heart and the chronic cervical spondylisics [chronic neck pain].

CAN A BROKEN HEART CAUSE NECK PAIN?

It is not an absurd idea or any hypothesis. Skeletal system of our body is basically a support system of our body lithe.

And once, when the feeling of support and trust is hindered from us in any form, this tents starts to dents and body loses its postures; and so this happened in this case too.

HOMEOPATHIC OPINION

Whenever we have cases related to joint complaints like osteoarthritis Rheumatoid Arthritis or Multiple Joints involvement, lumbago (chronic back pain), slip disc, cervical spondyolitis we look for following triggering factors:-

GENETICS (HLA B27 related auto immune disorder)

INJURY – Mechanical (accidental)

Acute disease causing long lasting changes like chikanguniya, dengue etc

Psyche level loss of support, feeling of lover.

Check out next week in the same series about phrenology concept of skeletal system and intruging details about one of the red flag.