MISSED CHANCE

           MISSED CHANCE

There are many things in our life require an immediate unavoidable attention at any given moment of time. Since we can’t act diversely in that time zone we prioritize the things and make our ‘to do list’. But its only years later we understand how efficient was our list? Whether we were right in providing weight age, footage and extensive attention to things that we considered important at that time is revealed as after effects to our previous choices. We just missed an opportunity because of time constrain.

INCIDENT-1

They both were teachers in government school and worked really hard. And it was there only they fell in love with each other and end up getting married. It was six months into their marriage and the luck was bestowing flowers on them with both hands. They both earned themselves a scholarship study in South Africa for two years.

Before they could enjoy the news, there was ground breathtaking news waiting for them. The lady was pregnant with their first child. But it turned out to be spot spoiler. Instead of being euphoric, everything became gloomy.

They can’t manage South Africa and the baby; they have to sacrifice one for other. It was a tough call but they have to make it. Its five years now, they are living happily, and job satisfaction and increased pay grade after their last foreign visit.

INCIDENT – 2

It was a arrange marriage. Honeymoon period went awesome but when the real life runs for practicality the reel life is locked in the closet. The girl was more interested in living a high profile life rather than getting steamed in the kitchen or sweating in vegetable market.

Half of her time was spent in parlors getting a flawless look and other half she partied hard. Initially it was accepted as the newbie interest but when the marathon run couldn't find finish line, the eyebrows started to rise. It wasn't expected as well as the accepted demure of a daughter in law. And hence, otherwise lenient mother in law started to question her acts. The lady found it intruding, intriguing and invalidating and since that day the hostile feeling between both parties started to run high on graphs.

Couple of months later when the tolerance threshold of the mother in law crossed beyond retrace, she asked for a settlement.

The egos ran high in blood line of daughter in law too and finally she moved out of the house with her husband, on rent.

Her partying ways carried on full swim. Now there was no pressure from any side no bearing lectures on life style and responsibilities and no persuasion to start the family. According to her she was too young and it was too early to go family ways. It was her time to enjoy and she couldn't trade it for anything. It’s been five years since she was married. She is now bored of rogue night life and just wants little normality for a change. She realised her mistake though late. She reconciled with her mother in law and taken good care of her. But now only thing that is missing is her bundle of joy.

CONSEQUENCES

Both women are taking treatment for infertility, the first one for secondary infertility after one baby she aborted in the womb and other one for primary infertility. Off lately they have been spotted more at IVF alliances rather taking promotions or enjoying wild night life respectively.

MORAL

Time is like fine grain of sand with habit to slip from hand.